Finding my own part in my mistakes. Well, and I, and I think that's the, you know, that's a, that's a great point to make just in general that anything, if, if, if, if anyone out there and it doesn't matter whether you're, you know, I know I say this all the time, but it really doesn't matter whether you're AA based or 12 step based, or even if you're in an organized type of program, you know if, if you are doing all these things, you know, on a daily basis it, it is going to be it's work number one, and it is, there are some sacrifices.