Truth and Lies: Navigating Honesty in Addiction
Being able to hold on to me right now is going to trump worrying about you. But when we start talking about that, I hate me place. Now we're talking self-preservation now we're talking about if you knew this and you were disgusted, then I'm going to be abandoned, then I'm going to be left all to myself, and that's going to destroy me.
Imagine being in a world where telling the truth feels impossible. That's the reality for many addicts, and it's a topic David Millward, ASUDC, tackles head-on in this episode of 'Surviving Loving an Addict Podcast'. Joined by his son Carston, David dives into why addicts often struggle with honesty and how this impacts their relationships with loved ones.
He breaks down the psychological barriers that make it hard for addicts to distinguish between truth and lies, often driven by deep-seated self-preservation and self-hatred. For those on the outside, understanding these motivations can be incredibly challenging. David offers practical advice on setting boundaries and protecting oneself from the emotional turmoil caused by an addict's dishonesty. He emphasizes the crucial role of professional counseling in addressing these behavioral issues, highlighting that both addicts and their loved ones need support.
This episode is a raw and enlightening look at one of addiction's most frustrating symptoms, offering valuable insights for anyone affected by this struggle.