Why Expecting from Others is Natural: Danish Bashir's Perspective on Relationships
What you can choose to believe and accept is that expecting from people is natural. You as a person would expect from other people when you put in a lot of efforts, but those expectations will be met sometimes, yet other times they won't. This understanding liberates you from a lot of burden.
Picture this: you’re in a relationship and you naturally expect your partner to show care and put in effort. But what happens when those expectations aren’t met? In this thought-provoking episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, tackles the often misunderstood concept of expectations in relationships. Contrary to popular advice that suggests avoiding expectations to prevent disappointment, Danish argues that expecting from others is entirely natural.
He explains that it’s unrealistic to not have any expectations and that this mindset can actually create inner turmoil. Danish dives into why we expect certain behaviors from those we invest in emotionally and how accepting this can free us from the weight of unmet expectations. With his compassionate approach, he offers practical advice on how to handle these situations without feeling burdened.
This episode is perfect for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of their relationships better and find peace in the natural ebb and flow of expectations.