Why Self-Grading Might Not Be the Best Idea in Sobriety
The biggest thing that clicked into place for me is that I'm still a pretty shaky narrator of my own personal story, and that means I'm a shaky evaluator on many things in my life.
Ever wondered if you're the best judge of your own progress in sobriety? Nelson H. from 'LOL Sober' shares a thought-provoking take on why relying solely on self-evaluation can be misleading. Inspired by his kids' report cards and a piece of program literature, Nelson dives into the pitfalls of solitary self-appraisal. He draws parallels to how NFL draft prospects, employees, and even restaurants seek external reviews to get an accurate picture.
Nelson candidly discusses how his own narrative can sometimes be shaky, making external feedback crucial in his recovery journey. By inviting others to evaluate him, he's uncovered blind spots and areas for growth that he might have missed on his own. Nelson highlights the importance of the fourth and fifth steps in self-improvement, emphasizing that sharing our inventory with another person can offer new perspectives and insights.
This episode is a reminder that opening up to others and seeking their input can be empowering and essential for personal growth, especially in recovery.