I noticed that complaining is something that works for a certain amount of time, but if it gets too much and too long and too stuck, like so if I come home complaining about the same person all the time at work and I'm like it's a little different than just like, oh my gosh, this crazy thing happened on the road Today on the way home, and this lady came in and she gave me this tip and this other guy was saying this: weird stuff like: right, it's over. That's when you come in for like assistance or maybe guidance a little bit.