Three Crucial Truths for Lasting Sobriety with Dr. Mike
The idea that we're ever going to be like normal people has to be smashed.
Ever wondered why some people seem to 'get' sobriety while others struggle? In this episode of 'Experience the Big Book', Dr. Mike breaks down three game-changing statements from the AA Big Book that could be the key to your recovery. He kicks things off with the Set-Aside Prayer, a heartfelt plea to clear his mind of preconceived notions and approach recovery with fresh eyes. This prayer sets the stage for a deeper, more open engagement with the steps to sobriety.
Dr. Mike stresses the importance of sharing your journey with others and maintaining a spiritually fit condition. He warns against the pitfalls of self-centeredness, which can spiral into self-pity and resentment—both dangerous triggers for relapse. One of the standout points in this episode is the need to abandon the idea of ever being like 'normal' drinkers. This might be tough to accept, but it's crucial for anyone serious about recovery. Dr.
Mike explains that alcoholics face a unique combination of mental obsession, loss of choice, and physical allergy to alcohol, making it impossible to drink like non-addicts. The episode also delves into what Dr. Mike calls 'the gift of desperation'. Without this, he argues, you won't be motivated to do the hard work that recovery demands. He suggests starting small—attending meetings, having coffee with sober friends, and reading the Big Book.
These simple actions can lead to profound changes and a new way of living. If you're searching for practical advice and heartfelt guidance on your path to sobriety, this episode is a must-listen.