Narcissism and Addiction: Rokelle Lerner’s Deep Dive on Recovery Coast to Coast
The problem is that this kind of narcissistic tendencies- me, me, me- don't necessarily go away with treatment. So basically, you're saying all addicts are narcissistic to a certain degree.
What happens when narcissism meets addiction? In this episode of 'Recovery Coast to Coast', host Neil Scott sits down with author and treatment specialist Rokelle Lerner at the 2015 TAAP Conference on Addiction Studies in San Antonio, Texas. Lerner, who is the clinical director and co-creator of Inner Path Workshops, Cottonwood Tucson, and Spring Workshops in London, brings a wealth of knowledge to the table. She’s spent years researching how narcissistic traits can complicate addiction and recovery.
Lerner explains that narcissistic tendencies are often found in addicts and can be a significant trigger for relapse, especially when the inflated self-image crumbles after a breakup or other life event. She breaks down the difference between situational and developmental narcissism, noting that the latter is much harder to treat. But it’s not all doom and gloom—Lerner also discusses how trauma can shape one’s quest for meaning and the critical role of attachment repair in fostering healthier relationships.
The conversation is rich with insights that challenge common misconceptions about narcissism and addiction. Lerner’s latest book, which explores how trauma can lead to a more meaningful life, is also touched upon. This episode offers a nuanced look at two often misunderstood issues, making it a must-listen for anyone grappling with or interested in these complex topics.