Claiming Your Space: The Right to a Safe Home
You are allowed to keep your door shut, locked, your gate locked, and you are allowed to expect that people don't enter your safe zone, peer over your fence, record you, follow you in the car, or follow you on social media if they're not welcome because there's no need for it.
Feeling safe in your own home is not just a luxury; it's a fundamental right. In this episode of 'The Trauma of Abuse', Hannah Barnard dives into the importance of personal safety and the validation of this right for abuse victims. Ever wondered how abusers manipulate their way into your life? Hannah breaks down the tactics used by abusers and unwanted individuals to invade personal spaces, often using excuses or enlisting others to gain access.
She provides practical advice for both victims and professionals, highlighting the need for effective protocols and the right questions to ensure safety. Hannah also explores modern tools like apps that can boost confidence and safety for those at risk. She doesn't shy away from discussing the often-overlooked threat of secondary bullies—those who perpetuate abuse indirectly.
Her guidance is aimed at building resilience and empowering victims to assert their boundaries, emphasizing that saying 'no' and walking away from abusive situations is crucial. If you're a professional working with abuse victims or someone seeking to understand the complexities of personal safety, this episode offers invaluable insights. Hannah’s compassionate approach ensures that listeners feel supported and informed, making it clear that everyone deserves to feel secure in their own home.