Healing from Emotional Neglect: Insights with Kina Penelope and Jacque Blossfield
Episode Overview
Emotional neglect and its impact on children's nervous systems Challenges in recognizing and healing from emotional neglect Importance of self-compassion and validation of emotional experiences The significance of affection, attention, admiration, and attunement in fostering healthy relationships Exploring the impact of emotional neglect on adult relationships and individual healing
A lot of people invalidate their own trauma because they're like, well, I wasn't hit. Whenever I was sick, my mom would then kind of pay attention to me all the time. You know, it's the inconsistency that can kind of get a lot of kids. The inconsistency and well, I feel like also it kind of just speaks to how in our culture people aren't necessarily that informed on what emotional needs are you know like it's easy to identify like yeah you were left without food or without medical care or shelter these kind of like basic physical needs but you can't really recognize emotional neglect unless you know what emotional needs are and also how important they are because I feel like emotional needs kind of get almost like minimized a little bit where it's like, oh, you didn't get attention.
What happens when emotional neglect goes unnoticed and unaddressed? In this episode, Kina Penelope teams up with therapist Jacque Blossfield to tackle this pressing issue head-on. They delve into the subtle yet damaging effects of emotional neglect, particularly how it shapes a child's nervous system and influences adult relationships. This isn't just about identifying the problem; it's about finding a path to healing and self-compassion.
Jacque shares her expertise on recognizing the signs of emotional neglect, while Kina offers practical advice for those struggling to overcome its impact. Together, they discuss the vital role of connection, attention, admiration, and attunement in fostering healthy relationships. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone looking to understand emotional neglect better and take steps toward recovery.