Real Men - MasculinityReal Men - Masculinity
samsn's STRONGER
The gender myths surrounding masculinity are often an obstacle to recovery for male survivors of child sexual abuse. Our society presents us with repetitive reinforcements of how men are supposed to look and act, especially with regard to emotional range and sexual intimacy. Those who don't fit the prevailing stereotypes for 'white male privilege' often face additional challenges. Men from First Nations, culturally diverse, or LGBTQI communities, men with disabilities and older men report that they often face additional discrimination and prejudice on top of the burdens of not conforming to dominant expectations about masculinity. Strong messages like 'don't be a victim, be strong, don't show emotion, harden up, you should have been able to fight it off, boys don't cry…’ are still alive and well. What did survivors of child sexual abuse learn about masculinity myths that enabled them to unlock a new way of looking at life, manhood and themselves? Featuring (in order of appearance): Mark W, Shane Greentree (SAMSN, Clinical Services Manager), Commissioner Robert Fitzgerald AM, Pete R, Phillip S, Luke S, Professor Patrick O’Leary, Dr Judy Cashmore, Les S, Matthew O, Jarad G, Lindsay G. Resources for survivors: https://www.samsn.org.au/recovery-and-healing/resources-for-survivors/ Thanks to: Joe Jackson [http://joejackson.com/] and Maine Road Management for permission to quote the lyrics from Joe’s song ‘Real Men’. Music: Licensed via Audiio.com OPENING / MARK W - Julep House: Mentoring LES - Ardie Son: Long Live the Sky Creatures: Folklore LINDSAY - Seth Öphengon: Waking Life CLOSING CREDITS - Seth Öphengon: A Safe Place (Instrumental)
1:00:07•30 Nov 2021
Breaking Stereotypes: Male Survivors Redefine Masculinity
“Toxic masculinity harms men because it can limit our life experiences and contribute to the myth that we are invulnerable and don't need help, when in reality everyone needs help at some point.”
What happens when society's rigid ideas of masculinity clash with the painful realities of childhood sexual abuse? In this eye-opening episode of 'samsn's STRONGER', male survivors open up about their struggles with gender myths and the journey to reclaim their sense of self. Featuring voices from diverse backgrounds, including First Nations, culturally diverse communities, LGBTQI individuals, men with disabilities, and older men, this episode dives deep into the additional layers of discrimination they face.
These men share their experiences of battling stereotypes like 'boys don't cry' and 'be strong', which often hinder recovery. With insights from experts like Shane Greentree, Commissioner Robert Fitzgerald AM, and Professor Patrick O’Leary, the conversation expands to include the roles institutions and religion play in perpetuating harmful gender norms. This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's about finding a new way to look at life, manhood, and oneself.
By fostering understanding and compassion, these survivors show that reclaiming masculinity is possible. If you're looking for an honest discussion that breaks down toxic masculinity and offers hope, this episode is a must-listen.
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