TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
Reactive Defense - Fighting Back Is Not Abuse
Reactive Defense - Fighting Back Is Not Abuse
Reactive Defense - Fighting Back Is Not Abuse
Wednesday 11th October 2023
Matt and Paige Robinson discuss reactive defense, helping victims of abuse understand their reactions and find strength in 'Till The Wheels Fall Off'.
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TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
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Episode Overview
- Illustrates the nuances of reactive defense in abusive dynamics
- Emphasizes the distinction between reactive defense and abuse
- Offers insights into coping mechanisms for victims of mistreatment
- Challenges stigma associated with reactive defense in addiction-affected relationships
- Encourages self-reflection and personal growth for individuals affected by mistreatment
Reactive abuse isn't necessarily abuse. Let's not even really call it abuse. So a quick analogy, because I'm an analogy fan, a kid's getting bullied on the bus every single day. He's getting stuff stolen from him. He's getting made fun of. When that kid fights back, do we call that kid an abuser?
Ever felt like you're to blame when you lash out in response to mistreatment? Matt and Paige Robinson tackle this very issue in their latest episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off'. They dive into the concept of reactive defense, where victims of abuse respond to ongoing mistreatment, often feeling guilty and confused about their reactions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone caught in the whirlwind of abusive relationships, especially those intertwined with addiction.
Matt and Paige, drawing from their own experiences in addiction recovery, break down the difference between reactive defense and actual abuse. They emphasize that reacting to abuse is not the same as being an abuser. This crucial distinction helps victims understand their responses and lifts the heavy burden of guilt they often carry. The Robinsons also explore how abusers manipulate these reactions to paint themselves as victims, shifting blame onto the actual victims.
This manipulation adds another layer of complexity to already volatile relationships. The hosts provide practical advice on coping mechanisms and self-protection strategies, aiming to empower listeners to recognize and validate their experiences. This episode isn't just about understanding reactive defense; it's about healing and self-betterment. Matt and Paige encourage listeners to reflect on their own experiences and find strength in their reactions. By shedding light on these dynamics, they offer a pathway to personal growth and resilience.
If you're struggling with feelings of guilt or confusion in an abusive relationship, or if you're looking for ways to support someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and compassionate guidance. Tune in and join Matt and Paige as they help you navigate these challenging emotional landscapes.