Randy Haveson: From Wealth to Recovery and Building True Self-Esteem
With self-esteem, everything is imperfect and it's okay.
Ever wondered how someone with everything can still hit rock bottom? Meet Randy Haveson, who grew up in a wealthy family and had all the material comforts one could ask for. But behind the scenes, Randy was grappling with severe ADD and turned to drugs like cocaine and quaaludes to feel 'normal'. His teenage years spiraled into full-blown addiction, leading to job losses, getting kicked out of college, and losing friends.
At 24, Randy found himself contemplating suicide, knife in hand. But a call to a suicide hotline changed his path, leading him toward recovery. In this episode of 'Knockin' Doorz Down', host Jason LaChance sits down with Randy to unpack his tumultuous journey. They discuss the pivotal moment that led Randy to seek help and how he transformed his life. Now an author and life coach, Randy uses his story to guide others through their own battles with addiction.
One key takeaway from their conversation is the difference between self-esteem and ego. Randy explains that true self-esteem comes from within, not from external validations like fancy cars or designer clothes. In contrast, ego is fragile and dependent on others' opinions, often leading to insecurity. Another intriguing topic they touch on is the power of language. Randy suggests ditching words like 'should' and 'try', which can undermine self-worth and reinforce negative patterns.
Instead, he advocates for honesty and taking ownership of one's actions. Randy also emphasizes the importance of seeking support. He acknowledges that addiction can be isolating but stresses that reaching out for help is a sign of strength. He found solace in step programs, treatment centers, and sober communities, and encourages listeners to find a support system that works for them. This episode is a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with addiction or mental health issues.
Randy's story is a testament to the power of recovery and the importance of building true self-esteem. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that could very well change your perspective on life.