Proving My Manhood Through Toxic Sexual BehaviourProving My Manhood Through Toxic Sexual Behaviour
Sex Jesus and the Not So Virgin Mary
The Sex Jesus reveals his journey from abuse and addiction to becoming a coach focused on healing and self-discovery.
32:34•23 Apr 2020
From Pain to Purpose: The Sex Jesus' Journey of Healing and Coaching
“Sex became this thing that I started offering like as a service... I was using it to protect myself in my community, so I didn't get beaten up for being gay and at the same time, it was just always a service I was performing from women, because I wasn't super personally involved in the experience, but I loved making another person feel good while getting enough clout to protect myself from all the gay jokes and stuff and the threat of dying because of being gay at the same time.”
Imagine growing up believing that your worth as a man was tied to sex, drugs, and violence. That's the reality The Sex Jesus faced. In this episode of 'Sex Jesus and the Not So Virgin Mary', he opens up about his tumultuous past, marked by sexual abuse, addiction, and toxic sexual behaviors. Raised in the inner city, he was bombarded with harmful messages about masculinity and manhood.
After enduring sexual abuse at a young age, he turned to pornography and sex as coping mechanisms, using them to shield himself from ridicule and violence. 'Sex became this thing that I started offering like a service', he recalls, as he navigated the confusion and pain of his identity. Now, as a sex and desire coach, The Sex Jesus shares the hard-earned lessons from his journey.
He discusses the damaging effects of toxic masculinity and the importance of self-discovery and healing. This episode is not just a recount of his past but a testament to the power of transformation. It's an eye-opening narrative for anyone grappling with similar issues or seeking insight into overcoming deep-seated trauma. Dive into this candid conversation and discover how one man's path from pain led him to a purpose-driven life, helping others heal and find their own strength.
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