Allies in Recovery
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Podcast #79 — When Things Get Nasty, What Cards Trump the Blame Card?
Podcast #79 — When Things Get Nasty, What Cards Trump the Blame Card?
Podcast #79 — When Things Get Nasty, What Cards Trump the Blame Card?
Friday 23rd July 2021
Discover strategies to deflect blame and maintain compassion in conversations about addiction on 'Coming Up for Air'.
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Get the buttons here!Deflecting Blame in Addiction: Strategies for Compassionate Conversations
When your loved one plays the 'Blame' card or shames you or guilts you, what are your options? Our hosts explain why the 'Blame Game' is actually a very smart and adaptive technique that our loved ones with Substance Use use to self-soothe.
Ever feel like you're constantly dodging blame when talking to a loved one struggling with addiction? In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Dominique Simone-Levine, Laurie McDougall, and Annie Highwater tackle the blame game head-on. They unravel why those grappling with substance use often resort to blaming as a self-soothing mechanism. But more importantly, they share practical strategies to help you stay grounded and compassionate without getting sucked into the guilt trip.
Kayla offers some powerful 'cards' you can play to deflect blame effectively. Laurie dives into ways to empower both yourself and your loved one during these tricky conversations, whether face-to-face or over the phone. One standout tip is the art of curiosity—staying genuinely interested in what the other person is saying without getting defensive. Reflective listening also comes up as a crucial tool to keep the dialogue calm and connected.
And when things get too heated, knowing how and when to gracefully exit the conversation can be a lifesaver. If you've ever found yourself caught in a blame spiral, this episode is packed with insights and tools to help you navigate those tough moments with empathy and strength.