The Pitfalls of Pity: Supporting a Loved One with Addiction
Ask yourself, what does feeling sorry for someone lead me to do.
Ever felt a wave of sorrow for a loved one struggling with addiction? It’s a natural response, but it can also be a double-edged sword. In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Laurie McDougall and Annie Highwater tackle the tricky terrain of feeling sorry for someone with substance use disorder. They dive into how these emotions can sometimes do more harm than good, potentially enabling addictive behaviors rather than helping.
Laurie and Annie, both mothers who've been through the wringer themselves, share personal anecdotes and practical advice to help you navigate these murky waters. They explore the fine line between compassion and enabling, emphasizing the need for setting healthy boundaries. Are you lending money to an addict? They’ll discuss why that’s a slippery slope and offer tips on how to avoid it.
This episode isn’t just about pointing out problems; it’s about finding solutions that empower both you and your loved one. Laurie and Annie's candid conversation aims to help you transform pity into productive support, guiding your loved one towards recovery without compromising your own well-being. If you're caught in the emotional whirlwind of loving someone with addiction, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and find out how to turn your compassion into a powerful tool for change.