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Playing hard to get

Sunday 1st November 2020

Is playing hard to get effective in dating? 'All In The Mind' podcast explores its psychology, effectiveness, and impact on online dating.
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Playing Hard to Get: Does It Really Work in Modern Dating?

"Playing hard to get can lead to someone pursuing you, so long as they're already invested in chasing you down. It's a combination of individual differences and made value combined with this person made me feel special, and maybe one or two other things, and that's what we call the hard to get phenomenon." - Paul Eastwick, Professor of Psychology at The University Of California Davis
Ever wondered if playing hard to get is a winning move in the dating game? This episode of 'All In The Mind' dives into this age-old tactic and its relevance today. Host Lynne Malcolm chats with psychologists and explores recent studies that shed light on when and why this strategy might actually work. Are people who play hard to get seen as more desirable, or does it backfire in the age of dating apps?
You'll hear about the emotional and motivational aspects behind this approach and why authentic communication remains crucial in any relationship. Perfect for anyone curious about the dynamics of attraction and modern dating, this episode offers a blend of scientific insights and practical advice.
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