Parenting with Purpose: Steve Ward's Journey from Struggles to Strength
Episode Overview
Be proactive in parenting and start conversations early. Understand your children's world and connect deeply with them. Set clear boundaries and communicate them effectively. Be a good listener and offer empathy and support. It's okay not to be okay; be a safe person for your children to talk to.
Parents need to listen and listen some more, with empathy and love.
In this episode of the ParentU Podcast, Steve Ward, founder of Steps Ministries, shares his incredible journey from a high-functioning alcoholic to a dedicated advocate for recovery and parenting. Host Mark welcomes Steve with open arms, diving into Steve's background, including his 38-year tenure at IBM and the personal struggles that led him to his current path.
Steve candidly discusses the dark times his family faced due to substance abuse and mental health issues, likening them to a tornado tearing through their lives. His experiences have shaped his calling to help others through Steps Ministries, which he founded after leaving IBM. Steve introduces the concept of 'PACES' for parents: Preparation, Awareness, Connection, Education, and Steps. He emphasises the importance of being proactive in parenting, starting conversations early, and being involved in your children's lives.
Steve also highlights the significance of understanding your children's world and connecting with them on a deeper level. He believes that parents need to be good listeners, empathetic, and supportive. Steve also addresses the challenges parents face in connecting with their teenagers. He shares practical advice on how parents can reinforce healthy choices and set boundaries while maintaining a supportive and loving relationship.
He stresses the importance of communication, vulnerability, and being a safe person for your children to talk to. Steve's message is clear: it's okay not to be okay sometimes, and parents should be there for their children, offering love and support without judgment. This episode is a must-listen for any parent looking to improve their relationship with their children and navigate the challenges of parenting in today's world.
Steve's wisdom and experience provide valuable insights that can help parents create a positive and supportive environment for their kids. Don't miss out on this heartfelt and informative conversation that could make a significant difference in your family's life.