Parenting Through Addiction: Setting Boundaries and Finding Strength
If a parent rescues that son or daughter from every legal encounter, then that extra layer of accountability and safety net that really provides leverage for them to stay in recovery isn't present right out the window.
Parenting a child struggling with addiction is no easy feat, but Ginny Mills brings a wealth of experience to help guide you through. In this episode of Friends in Recovery, hosts Mike Miles and Ed Chionchio Sr. sit down with Ginny, who operates Full Life Counseling in Winston-Salem, NC, and co-owns Parenting Through Addiction. With over 25 years in the field, Ginny sheds light on the delicate balance parents must strike when dealing with their child's substance abuse issues.
One of the key takeaways from Ginny's insights is the importance of setting boundaries. It's natural for parents to want to protect their children from every legal and personal scrape, but sometimes stepping back is the best way to help them. Ginny explains how creating accountability can serve as a crucial leverage point for children in recovery. Rather than bailing them out of every situation, allowing them to face consequences can foster responsibility and growth.
But what about the parents themselves? Ginny doesn't shy away from addressing the emotional toll addiction takes on families. She encourages parents to reflect on their own emotional needs and relationships with substances. By modeling healthy behavior, parents can create a supportive environment that aids their child's recovery journey. Ginny also highlights the importance of finding external support. Programs like Parenting Through Addiction offer invaluable resources, including courses and meetings where parents can share their experiences and gain advice.
This sense of community can be a lifeline for parents feeling isolated and overwhelmed. So if you're navigating the choppy waters of parenting through addiction, this episode offers practical advice and a message of hope. Ginny's expertise reminds us that while the journey is challenging, it's possible to create a safe and healthy home environment for everyone involved.