Trust, Boundaries, and Finding Peace: A Chat with Dr. John Deloney
Episode Overview
Dr. Deloney discusses the complexities of vulnerability and its impact on relationships. The importance of giving people the opportunity to show up and set healthy boundaries is emphasized. Insights into the toxic culture of avoiding discomfort and overusing the term 'toxic' are shared. Practical tips for recalibrating the overactive anxiety alarm system for a non-anxious life are offered. Zoe Asher expresses gratitude for Dr. Deloney's impactful role and encourages the audience to pick up his book.
If you are only seeking comfort, don't seek relationship, because it's an uncomfortable, wonky mess and worth every second of it.
Imagine a life where anxiety takes a backseat, and peace drives the journey. In this thought-provoking episode of 'Accidentally Intentional', host Zoe Asher sits down with mental health expert Dr. John Deloney to unpack the intricate dance between trust, anxiety, and peace. They dive into the heart of vulnerability in relationships, discussing how to build trust without crossing into oversharing territory. Ever found yourself thinking 'I don't want to bother people'? Dr.
Deloney addresses this mindset head-on, explaining how it can hinder genuine connections and why it's crucial to let others in. The conversation also explores the overuse of the term 'toxic' and the importance of setting healthy boundaries to protect your mental well-being. Dr. Deloney shares his personal journey with vulnerability, highlighting the transformative power of reaching out and giving people the chance to support you.
He offers practical tips on practicing curiosity and mindfulness, which can help dial down that overactive anxiety alarm system we all know too well. Zoe doesn't shy away from her own struggles with anxiety, making this episode relatable and real. By the end, you'll feel equipped with new strategies to foster peace in your life and relationships. And if you're looking for more in-depth advice, Dr. Deloney's book 'Building A Non-Anxious Life' comes highly recommended by Zoe herself.
Tune in for a candid, insightful discussion that's sure to leave you feeling more connected and less anxious.