The Myth of Saving a Narcissist: Inner Child or Inner Demon?
Episode Overview
Narcissists don't have an inner child to save; they have an inner demon. Narcissists create a false self by suppressing their true nature. Attempts to rescue a narcissist are futile and lead to more pain. Compassion from a distance is crucial for your own well-being. Upcoming webinar on overcoming betrayal trauma caused by narcissists.
You're not trying to save an inner child; you're trying to save an inner demon.
Ever felt like you're wasting your time trying to save a narcissist's inner child? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a seasoned psychologist and narcissistic abuse recovery professional, debunks the myth of the narcissist's inner child. He argues that instead of an innocent inner child, narcissists harbour an inner demon that manipulates and abuses others. Danish explains why you can't save something that doesn't exist and how attempting to do so can lead to more pain and frustration for you.
Danish dives deep into the psychology behind narcissistic behaviour, illustrating how narcissists suppress their true selves to create a false persona that feels invincible. He uses relatable examples, like the concept of people-pleasing, to explain how trauma shapes behaviour and why narcissists are different. Danish also likens the narcissist's transformation to the movie Venom, where a parasitic entity takes over the host, providing power but at a significant cost.
You'll hear about the futility of trying to rescue a narcissist, as any momentary glimpses of vulnerability are fleeting and misleading. Danish encourages maintaining compassion from a distance to protect your own well-being. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with narcissistic abuse, offering valuable insights into why saving a narcissist is an impossible task. Don't miss out on Danish's upcoming webinar on overcoming betrayal trauma caused by narcissists.
This episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of narcissistic relationships and focus on your own healing journey.