Hoarding and Narcissism: Unraveling the Complex Web
Essentially in a bizarre concept. They actually steal people, which is really strange and bizarre.
Have you ever wondered why some people just can't let go of things or even people? In this fascinating episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', Yitz Epstein dives deep into the puzzling behavior of narcissistic hoarding. Yitz, a seasoned life coach, breaks down how hoarding serves as a coping mechanism for narcissists who fear abandonment and crave control. He explains that this attachment often stems from a traumatic childhood marked by abuse and insecure attachments.
For narcissists, clinging to possessions or people becomes a way to seek safety and predictability in an unpredictable world. But it doesn't stop at objects; narcissists also hoard people, treating them as mere objects to be controlled and used for validation, attention, and even reputation. This behavior is particularly insidious because it's not as visible as physical hoarding, making it harder for victims to recognize.
Yitz shares his personal journey of healing from narcissistic abuse, offering valuable guidance for those on a similar path. He emphasizes that recovery is possible and provides practical steps to break free from these toxic patterns. If you're looking to understand the complexities of narcissistic hoarding and find a way forward, this episode is a must-listen.