Facing Trauma: Buki's Journey of Strength and Healing in Lagos
It's not about what happens to you, it's about how you respond to it. You can either choose to be a victim or you can choose to be a survivor. And I choose to be a survivor.
Imagine being held at knife-point, robbed, and raped in the bustling city of Lagos. In this powerful episode of 'Podcastlife with Writer Carlton Holden', we hear from Oluwabukolami Akinnadeju, known as Buki, as she bravely recounts her harrowing experience. Buki's story is not just about the traumatic event but also about her incredible resilience and determination to heal.
Carlton dives deep into Buki's life in Nigeria, touching on the challenges she faced while studying and her involvement in the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program. The conversation takes a gripping turn as Buki opens up about the night that changed her life forever. She speaks candidly about the psychological aftermath, her healing journey, and how she finds the strength to move forward. This episode isn't just about trauma; it's about survival and the human spirit's capacity to overcome.
Carlton and Buki also explore Nigeria's complex history, including the impact of the slave trade on its people, offering a broader context to her story. To lighten the mood, they chat about their favorite cars, beaches, movies, and books, making this episode a well-rounded listen that balances heavy topics with lighter moments. Whether you're looking for inspiration or a deeper understanding of resilience, Buki's story will leave you feeling both moved and hopeful.