Mess It Up Show 166: Spinster - Embracing Self-Improvement Before Seeking Help
It doesn't make sense to fix something before you take it to get repaired. You could take your car to the shop and think it's one thing, but once the mechanic looks at it and takes a closer look at all the parts, they could realize it's actually something completely different.
Ever thought about why we often try to fix things ourselves before asking for help? In this episode of 'Mess It Up', Giselle returns to chat with the Bow Tie Guy about just that. They dive into the quirky idea of 'fixing your car before taking it to the shop', using it as a metaphor for self-improvement. Giselle and the Bow Tie Guy explore the importance of self-discovery, recognizing personal flaws, and the value of having a sponsor in recovery.
Their conversation also touches on cognitive and child development, drawing on Jean Piaget's research to highlight how self-discovery plays a crucial role in learning. They stress the importance of addressing issues as they arise, without letting preconceived notions cloud judgment. The episode wraps up with a reminder that accepting help is vital, and that family remains a source of support, even when mistakes are made.
With a blend of humor and heartfelt advice, this episode encourages listeners to take charge of their own growth and embrace the journey towards self-improvement. Whether you're on your own recovery path or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers valuable insights and a touch of inspiration.