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Matthew 18 (Full Episode)
Matthew 18 (Full Episode)
Matthew 18 (Full Episode)
Thursday 20th June 2024
Explore how Matthew 18 guides conflict resolution and accountability within communities, with hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill.
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Episode Overview
- Matthew 18 offers guidance on handling conflicts within a community.
- Differentiate between sins, personality quirks, and emotional wounds.
- The goal is to bring people back into the community, not isolate them.
- Use discernment to address issues directly or exercise patience.
- Self-reflection is key when dealing with annoying behaviours.
The goal of this is to bring people into community. And when we are with people, there’s going to be things that bother us that are just kind of like quirks of other people.
Conflict resolution can be a tricky subject, but Wes Thompson and Austin Hill tackle it head-on in this episode of the Relational Recovery podcast. They dive into the biblical teachings of Matthew 18, discussing how Jesus advises us to handle confrontation and accountability within a community. With summer in full swing and personal anecdotes about their families, Wes and Austin set a relatable and friendly tone for this important discussion.
Matthew 18 is often referred to in Christian circles as a guide for 'church discipline,' but Wes and Austin aim to broaden the understanding of this passage. They explore how it can be applied not just in religious settings but in any community where people are striving to live better lives together. The hosts stress the importance of differentiating between actual sins, personality quirks, and emotional wounds.
This distinction is crucial because not every annoying behaviour is a sin; sometimes, it's just a difference in personality that requires patience and grace. Wes shares his experiences growing up in a Pentecostal church, where the concepts of 'binding and loosing' were sometimes misunderstood. He clarifies that these terms, in the context of Matthew 18, are about making collective decisions within a community when someone is unrepentant.
Austin adds that the ultimate goal of this process is not to isolate individuals but to bring them back into the fold, fostering a supportive environment where everyone can thrive. The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss how to approach situations where someone's behaviour might be harmful to the community. They emphasise the need for discernment—knowing when to address an issue directly and when to exercise patience. Wes and Austin also touch on the importance of self-reflection.
When someone annoys you, it's an opportunity to look inward and understand what that annoyance reveals about yourself. If you're part of a community, whether it's religious or not, this episode offers valuable insights into handling conflicts in a way that promotes healing and unity. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that blends biblical wisdom with practical advice for everyday life.