Mary McBain's 'Spaghetti': A Deep Dive into the Complexities of Consent
Silence is not consent and I would love it to really get out there, like I say. It's so important to start teaching all of that in schools.
How do you explain the intricacies of consent? In this episode of 'Take Back The Beat: Voice Notes', hosts Natalie Gray and Farah T sit down with the talented writer and actor Mary McBain to discuss her compelling short film, 'Spaghetti'. This film uses the metaphor of food to unravel the often misunderstood concept of consent, showing that it's not always a straightforward 'yes' or 'no'.
Mary opens up about her own harrowing experiences with sexual assault and the profound impact it has had on her life. She shares her journey of healing and emphasizes the importance of education in preventing sexual violence. Through storytelling, she aims to break down the taboos surrounding these critical issues. The conversation doesn't shy away from the difficult topics. The hosts and Mary tackle the nuances of consent, emphasizing that silence should never be mistaken for agreement.
They discuss the shame and stigma that often silence survivors, stressing the importance of speaking out and seeking help. For anyone wanting to understand the complexities of consent and the power of education in preventing sexual violence, this episode is a must-listen. It offers a raw, honest look at the challenges survivors face and the steps we can take to create a safer world.