Mary Pearl T's Guide to Steps 8 and 9: Making Amends with Heart and Humor
You've got to be very honest on a conscious level and quit justifying and rationalizing on that subconscious level, and god will have a way of bringing these things to me when I am ready to do them.
Ever felt the weight of needing to make things right with those you've hurt? Mary Pearl T takes you on a heartfelt and humorous journey through Steps 8 and 9 in this episode of The Recovery Show. With her unique blend of wisdom and wit, Mary Pearl breaks down these crucial steps, making the process of making amends both approachable and relatable. Step 8 involves listing everyone you've harmed and becoming willing to make amends.
Step 9 is about actually making those amends, except when doing so would cause further harm. Mary Pearl shares her own experiences, including the initial horror of realizing how many people she needed to apologize to and the relief that came with taking responsibility. Her personal stories make these steps feel less daunting and more like a path to genuine healing. One of the key messages Mary Pearl emphasizes is the importance of honesty—not just with others, but with yourself.
She talks about quitting the justifications and rationalizations that can keep you stuck. Instead, she encourages embracing honesty on a conscious level, which she believes is crucial for true recovery. Mary Pearl also offers practical advice for dealing with difficult amends. She stresses the importance of being willing to apologize to everyone you've harmed, while also being mindful of not causing additional harm.
Her mantra of 'progress, not perfection' serves as a comforting reminder that it's okay to take things one step at a time. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating the recovery process. Whether you're just starting out or have been on this journey for a while, Mary Pearl's discussion on Steps 8 and 9 offers hope, encouragement, and a good dose of humor.