Barbara K's Journey: Life with an Alcoholic Minister
We share the tools and solutions we have found that let us live a life that is serene, happy, and free, even when the alcoholic or addict is still drinking or using.
Imagine being married to an alcoholic minister, adored by his congregation but struggling behind closed doors. In this episode of The Recovery Show, Barbara K opens up about her life in such a unique situation. Recorded back in 1993, Barbara's talk offers a raw and honest look into the chaos and confusion that can come from loving someone battling addiction, especially when that person is also a spiritual leader.
Barbara doesn't hold back as she shares her own moments of madness and the toll her husband's drinking took on her mental health. She recounts times of crisis and the tough choices she had to make, all while trying to maintain a sense of normalcy. But amidst the turmoil, Barbara found a lifeline in the Al-Anon program. She discusses how its principles helped her regain control and find peace, even when her husband was still drinking.
This episode isn't just about the struggle; it's about finding hope and strength in the darkest of times. Barbara's story is a testament to the power of community support and the tools Al-Anon provides to help partners of alcoholics lead serene, happy lives. Whether you're dealing with similar issues or supporting someone who is, Barbara's insights offer valuable lessons and practical advice.
Tune in for an episode filled with compassion, understanding, and a touch of humor, all aimed at helping you navigate the challenges of loving someone with an addiction.