Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Counsellor A.J. Mahari

  • Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

Tuesday 17th January 2023

A.J. Mahari debunks the term 'malignant borderline' and emphasizes precise language in discussing Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and comorbidities.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Debunking 'Malignant Borderline': A.J. Mahari on Misleading BPD Terms

Your head will be spinning for months, years, maybe even for the rest of your life. And I just hope that this doesn't become the way that this gets spoken about, because it needs to be delineated much more carefully.
Imagine being in a relationship where labels and misunderstandings only add to the confusion and pain. That's exactly what Counsellor A.J. Mahari tackles in this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups'. Responding to a fellow therapist's use of the term 'malignant borderline', Mahari dives deep into why this label is not just misleading but potentially harmful.
With her extensive experience, she explains that less than 2% of women diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) would fit this contentious label of 'malignant borderline' or comorbid BPD and Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD). Mahari argues that using vague terms like 'malignant borderline' muddles the conversation and can lead to harmful misconceptions. She highlights how such imprecise language can negatively impact those in relationships with individuals diagnosed with BPD, often painting them in an unfairly negative light.
The episode doesn't shy away from the tough topics either, addressing the prevalence of interpartner violence among those with BPD, while also stressing that not all individuals with BPD exhibit violent behavior. By dissecting these complex issues, Mahari provides a much-needed call for more accurate and specific language when discussing BPD and its comorbidities. Her thoughtful insights serve as a reminder that understanding and compassion should be at the forefront of any conversation about mental health.
Whether you're a mental health professional, someone with BPD, or in a relationship with someone who has BPD, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice. Mahari's approach is both empathetic and educational, making this episode a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of BPD and the importance of precise language in mental health discussions.