Navigating Adult Friendships: Bridget Phetasy and Jeren Montgomery Share Their Journey
For a while I was, I mean not at all anymore, and these were people that I have gone back to and had to make amends in the amends process, because there were times where I didn’t treat them well.
Why is it so tough to make friends as an adult? Bridget Phetasy and her husband, Jeren Montgomery, tackle this very question in a lively episode of 'Factory Settings'. They dive into the evolution of friendships from childhood to adulthood, reflecting on how their own experiences have shaped their social circles.
Bridget talks about moving frequently and how it affected her ability to maintain long-term friendships, while Jeren reminisces about balancing his athletic pursuits with his love for nerdy activities like Dungeons & Dragons. The couple also humorously debates who is more liked by others and discusses the peculiarities of making 'couple friends'. They even touch on the sensitive topic of whether or not you can have more than one best friend.
Throughout the episode, the importance of authenticity and trust in forming lasting friendships is emphasized. Jeren, an associate marriage and family therapist, offers professional insights, highlighting that building genuine connections often requires stepping out of your comfort zone and sometimes being inconvenienced. This episode is perfect for anyone struggling with the complexities of adult friendships, offering both relatable anecdotes and practical advice.
Tune in to hear Bridget and Jeren's candid discussion on how to cultivate meaningful relationships in your adult life.