K.C. Hayes: A Journey from Fear to Confidence in Sobriety
Episode Overview
K.C. Hayes shares his journey from fear to confidence in sobriety. Emphasises the importance of making amends with family. Highlights the role of sponsors in maintaining sobriety. Discusses relapse prevention and the importance of working the AA program. Reflects on the emotional support and community found in AA.
I was born and got sober. So I was reborn.
In this heartfelt episode of 'Mad Dog Recovery AA Speakers', K.C. Hayes takes the stage at the Dogwood Men's Retreat in Palestine, Texas, sharing his powerful journey of sobriety. With a sobriety date of February 11, 1989, Hayes brings decades of experience and wisdom to his talk, making it a must-listen for anyone in recovery or supporting someone who is.
He begins by recounting his early days in Alcoholics Anonymous, filled with fear and uncertainty, and how he found solace and community within the fellowship. Hayes' story is one of transformation, from a scared newcomer to a confident member of the Lucky Ones group in Corpus Christi, Texas. Hayes doesn't shy away from discussing the challenges he faced, including relapses and health issues, but he also highlights the moments of triumph that kept him going.
He speaks fondly of his sponsors, who never relapsed and served as pillars of strength and guidance. Through personal anecdotes, Hayes illustrates the importance of making amends, the power of service work, and the significance of having a home group. His reflections on family, especially his relationship with his parents and the amends he made before they passed away, are particularly moving. Hayes' narrative is not just about the struggles but also about the joys and milestones of sobriety.
From morning watches to the emotional support he received from fellow AA members during tough times, Hayes paints a vivid picture of what it means to live a sober life. He emphasizes that relapse is not a part of the program but rather what happens if one doesn't work the program. His story is a testament to the enduring power of Alcoholics Anonymous and the community it fosters.
By the end of this episode, you'll be left with a deep appreciation for the resilience and strength required to maintain sobriety. Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, Hayes' story offers hope, inspiration, and practical advice for navigating the journey. So why not take a moment to listen and find out how one man's journey can resonate so deeply with your own?