Intimacy and Addiction: Understanding the Real Impact
His lack of drive or inability to perform has nothing to do with you. It’s just science.
Ever wondered how addiction affects intimacy in relationships? Michelle Anderson dives into this sensitive topic in her podcast 'Love Over Addiction'. In this episode, titled 'Intimacy - Part 2 - Be Prepared to Blush a Little', she tackles the tough questions about sexual drive and performance issues linked to alcohol and drug abuse. Did you know that excessive drinking can lead to erectile dysfunction and lower testosterone levels?
Michelle explains the science behind these changes, reassuring listeners that it's not their fault if their partner's sex drive has plummeted. She also addresses a common issue: addicts blaming their partners for the lack of intimacy. It's a tactic to dodge responsibility, and Michelle provides practical advice on how to navigate these tricky waters without falling into the trap of self-blame.
She encourages partners to stop comparing themselves to others and to understand that addiction changes the rules of the game. This episode is all about being real, without any judgment. Michelle's compassionate approach makes it easier to discuss these often-embarrassing issues, offering a safe space for listeners to find understanding and support. So, if you're dealing with intimacy issues in your relationship due to addiction, this episode is a must-listen.
You'll walk away with a better grasp of the science behind it and practical tips to help you cope.