Choosing to Stay or Leave: Love, Addiction, and Personal Growth
I stayed because I took my vow seriously. You know your program, my therapist Al-Anon, you know all these things have reinforced the fact that if I do decide to leave eventually, that I feel like god is okay with that, I really do, because my husband has a choice: whether he gets better or not, and if he chooses not to do the work and not to do the things he needs to do, then he's abandoning me in our marriage.
When you're in love with someone battling addiction, the decision to stay or leave can be one of the hardest you'll ever face. In this episode of 'Love Over Addiction', Michelle Anderson sits down with a courageous member of the community who opens up about her journey through this emotional labyrinth. She shares her experiences of building self-confidence and independence while wrestling with the church's views on divorce. This heartfelt conversation doesn't shy away from the tough topics.
You'll hear about the slow, often painful progression of addiction and its ripple effects on relationships. The guest offers a candid look at how she navigated these challenges, providing insights that could be a lifeline for anyone in a similar situation. The episode also touches on essential strategies for breaking the cycle of addiction within families. It's not just about the person struggling with addiction; it's about everyone involved.
Michelle and her guest discuss the importance of self-care and maintaining open communication with children, emphasizing that taking care of yourself is crucial for supporting your loved one. As they delve into the complexities of honoring vows and making difficult decisions, there's a strong undercurrent of hope and encouragement. This isn't just about surviving—it's about finding a way to thrive amidst the chaos.
If you're grappling with whether to stay or go, this episode offers both practical advice and emotional support to help you find your path.