Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Counsellor A.J. Mahari

  • Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You?

Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You?

Thursday 1st September 2022

A.J. Mahari dives into BPD idealization, revealing the fantasy bonds and trauma behind these intense relationships, with tips for healing.
29 minutes
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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BPD Idealization: The Fantasy Bonds and Hidden Pain

They never really existed, and that is a tragedy.
Ever felt swept off your feet in a whirlwind romance, only to crash into emotional chaos? This episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups' with A.J. Mahari takes you inside the world of idealization in borderline personality relationships. Mahari unpacks how these intense, fast-moving relationships create a fantasy bond, often rooted in deep-seated trauma. She explains that untreated individuals with BPD struggle to form genuine attachments, leaving their partners feeling unseen and unheard.
You’ll learn about the unconscious cycles that drive these relationships and why they can feel so intoxicating yet ultimately unsustainable. Mahari also dives into the childhood wounds that fuel these patterns and offers practical steps for healing from codependency. Whether you're in the thick of a BPD relationship or trying to recover from one, this episode provides valuable insights and actionable advice. Tune in to understand the hidden dynamics at play and find your path to emotional recovery.