LGBTQ Relationships in Sobriety: Real Talk from the ICYPAA Panel
I'm so grateful to have AA and to have gay people in AA, because you guys show me how to live.
Picture yourself at the 55th International Conference of Young People in AA (ICYPAA) in sunny Phoenix, AZ. It's July 2013, and a vibrant panel is about to share their stories. Kelsey, Mia, and Matt, each with a few years of sobriety under their belts, dive into the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals in Alcoholics Anonymous. Their conversation isn't just enlightening; it's a heartfelt exploration of balancing sobriety with the complexities of sexual orientation.
Kelsey, with two years sober, opens up about the struggles with shame and self-doubt that many in the LGBTQ community face. Mia, also two years sober, talks about the importance of spiritual fitness and how it has been a cornerstone in her recovery journey. Matt, three years sober, shares his experiences as an adult child of an alcoholic and how this background has influenced his relationships and sobriety.
The panelists don't shy away from discussing the nitty-gritty of relationships—whether it's with pets, bosses, or partners. They highlight what works and what doesn't, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating similar paths. One of the standout moments is when Kelsey expresses her gratitude for the supportive community within AA: 'I'm so grateful to have AA and to have gay people in AA, because you guys show me how to live'.
This episode is more than just a discussion; it's a source of inspiration and practical advice for those in the LGBTQ community who are on their sobriety journey. Whether you're part of this community or an ally, you'll find their stories both relatable and uplifting. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the intersection between sobriety and sexual orientation, and discover the power of a supportive community.