Mastering Tough Conversations: Dr. Fred Riley's Guide to Sensitive Topics
We want to make sure that we don't let conflict start to act like that wedge in the tree that, over time, makes its way through the relationship and splits that tree.
Ever found yourself tiptoeing around certain topics with friends or family? Dr. Fred Riley knows the feeling and offers some solid advice on how to navigate these tricky waters without capsizing your relationships. In this episode of 'Counseling On Demand', Dr. Riley dives into the art of discussing sensitive issues like politics, gun rights, and other hot-button topics with friends. The secret sauce? Mutual respect and picking the right moment. Dr.
Riley suggests avoiding heated debates when emotions are already high. Instead, opt for a calm, neutral setting where everyone can keep their cool. He also advises staying intellectually engaged rather than letting emotions take over. And if things get too intense, don't hesitate to bring in a third party to mediate. Dr. Riley uses the metaphor of a wedge in a tree to illustrate how unresolved conflicts can slowly split relationships apart.
His practical tips are a must-listen for anyone looking to maintain healthy, respectful friendships while tackling tough conversations.