Mastering Relationship Boundaries: Tips from Matt & Paige Robinson
The purpose of a boundary is to protect yourself. I just want to make that distinction, because I think a lot of times when I get asked about boundaries, it's like how do I get back at my wife? But the scary part about setting boundaries, I think for a lot of people who are codependent, like me and people pleasers, is that the follow through is extremely difficult for us.
Ever felt like your relationship boundaries are more like blurry lines? Matt and Paige Robinson are here to clear things up. In this episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off', the dynamic duo dive into the often misunderstood world of relationship boundaries. They break down what boundaries really are, why they're crucial for healthy relationships, and how to set and maintain them effectively. Matt shares his own experiences, emphasizing that boundaries are about self-protection, not retaliation.
He acknowledges the challenges, especially for people pleasers and those with codependent tendencies. Paige adds her perspective, stressing the importance of saying 'no' and how it can be a game-changer in avoiding being taken advantage of. The Robinsons offer practical advice and real-life examples, from managing personal time to dealing with substance use or abusive behavior. They also highlight the importance of building a supportive community where setting boundaries feels safe and manageable.
If you've ever struggled with setting boundaries or following through on them, this episode is packed with relatable insights and actionable tips. Tune in to learn how to protect yourself and foster healthier relationships with guidance from Matt and Paige.