Lee Davy
Lee Davy
How to Save Your Marriage with Nate & Kaley Klemp | The 80/80 Marriage
How to Save Your Marriage with Nate & Kaley Klemp | The 80/80 Marriage
How to Save Your Marriage with Nate & Kaley Klemp | The 80/80 Marriage
Monday 23rd September 2024
Discover how the 80/80 Marriage model can revolutionise your relationship with radical generosity and mutual support.
66 minutes
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Lee Davy
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Sobriety Toolkit
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
Creative Recovery Journeys
Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Adopt an 80/80 model to promote radical generosity in your relationship.
- Understand how societal conditioning affects power dynamics in marriage.
- Focus on small daily habits to foster connection and love.
- Sobriety alone isn't enough; conscious effort is needed to improve relationships.
- Emotional labour can't be measured by traditional fairness metrics.
The idea is that aspirational shift can have this really powerful effect where you begin to change the underlying culture of marriage.
Marriage can be a rollercoaster, especially when you're trying to balance the scales of fairness. In this episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, host Lee Davy chats with Nate and Kaley Klemp, co-authors of 'The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage'. The Klemps introduce their revolutionary approach to relationships, advocating for an 80/80 model that promotes radical generosity over the traditional 50/50 split.
This shift aims to transform marriages from a battleground of fairness and resentment into a space of mutual support and shared success. Nate and Kaley share their journey and insights, discussing how societal conditioning and power dynamics often sabotage relationships. They highlight the importance of small daily habits in fostering connection and love. For instance, they argue that emotional labour, like comforting a scared child in the middle of the night, can't be quantified by traditional measures of fairness.
Lee Davy adds his personal experiences, reflecting on how becoming alcohol-free wasn't the magic bullet he thought it would be for his marriage. He realised that sobriety was just one piece of the puzzle and that improving his relationship required conscious effort and generosity. The episode is packed with practical advice and real-life examples, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their relationship dynamics.
Whether you're newly sober or have been alcohol-free for years, the 80/80 model offers a fresh perspective on how to cultivate a thriving partnership. Ready to transform your relationship? Tune in to learn how radical generosity can make all the difference.