The Center for Motivation and Change
The Center for Motivation and Change
How to Grow Independent Adults with Jessica Lahey
How to Grow Independent Adults with Jessica Lahey
How to Grow Independent Adults with Jessica Lahey
Wednesday 24th February 2021
Learn how to raise independent kids during the pandemic with Jessica Lahey on The Beyond Addiction Show. Practical tips and insights await.
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Get the buttons here!Fostering Independence in Kids: Jessica Lahey's Wisdom on The Beyond Addiction Show
If you smooth the path for them too much, it actually backfires on their ability to learn and to become autonomous children and human beings.
Parenting during a pandemic has brought unique challenges and opportunities, especially when it comes to fostering independence in children. In this episode of The Beyond Addiction Show, Dr. Josh King sits down with Jessica Lahey, an educator, writer, and speaker, to explore the best ways to help kids grow into self-reliant adults. Jessica shares personal anecdotes about her family's experiences during the pandemic and dives into the critical question: Are children getting what they need right now?
Jessica discusses the importance of letting kids face struggles rather than smoothing their paths. This approach helps them develop resilience and learn valuable life skills. She also delves into the differences between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, highlighting why internal drives are more effective for long-term growth. Privacy and autonomy for children are other key points Jessica touches upon, stressing that these elements are essential for healthy development.
One of the standout moments in the conversation is Jessica's explanation of natural consequences. Instead of using punishment as a primary tool, she advocates for letting kids experience the outcomes of their actions. This method not only teaches responsibility but also empowers them to make better choices in the future. Jessica's insights are both practical and thought-provoking, making this episode a must-listen for parents navigating these challenging times.
Whether you're a parent, teacher, or someone interested in child development, you'll find valuable takeaways that can help you support the young people in your life.