I had to admit that every time my husband got involved, things went better and I had to put my pride aside. That was really tough for me because I wanted to believe that, as a mother, I was more intuitive to my son and that I could be more compassionate, that I could understand him better and that I was, you know, the soft, feely, touchy, loving one right, whereas my husband, he, came at it from a very logical point of view, unemotional, which is what I needed.