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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
There are 10 major choices that can lead to the action of trying to get your BPD Ex back that have consequences. For most who might succeed at getting a BPD Ex back the Borderline devaluation cycles that lead to relationship breakup again happen...
34:59•5 Nov 2022
The Hidden Costs of Reuniting with a BPD Ex: A.J. Mahari’s Guide
“Your inner child is fueling you and pushing you all over the map to want to go back to this person, because, hey, this person is a little bit like your borderline ex, a little bit like mommy or daddy.”
What drives people to try and rekindle relationships with exes who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari explores the 10 crucial choices involved in making this decision. These choices, whether deliberate or not, come with significant consequences that can deeply affect your emotional well-being. Mahari delves into how inner child trauma often pushes individuals to seek out these unhealthy relationships, despite the inevitable pain they bring.
She provides a candid look at why these relationships tend to cycle through devaluation faster and lack the idealization phase that might have been present initially. Instead of chasing after a past relationship, Mahari encourages listeners to confront their pain and focus on their healing journey. She emphasizes that understanding and addressing inner child trauma is key to breaking free from these damaging cycles.
This episode offers valuable insights for anyone grappling with the desire to get back with a BPD ex, shedding light on the importance of self-care and emotional recovery.
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