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Sober Awkward

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  • How Sleeping around really made us feel...

How Sleeping around really made us feel...

Wednesday 4th September 2024

Vic and Hamish get real about one-night stands and the emotional fallout. Expect honesty, humour, and some eye-opening truths about drunk sex.
17 minutes
Honest
Raw
Humorous
Reflective
Eye-opening

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One-Night Stands: The Morning After Truth

Episode Overview

  • Alcohol often makes one-night stands feel transactional and disconnected.
  • Drunk sex can lead to physical issues like Brewer's Droop.
  • Impaired judgement from drinking increases the risk of unprotected sex.
  • Sober one-night stands are generally more fulfilling and less regretful.
  • Meeting for coffee first can help build a genuine connection.
I gave these men a gift for no reason. I gave them the gift of my body, whereas in fact I wasn't getting anything in return
Ever wondered how one-night stands really make you feel the morning after? Vic and Hamish tackle this candid topic in a way only they can – with raw honesty and a dash of humour. In this episode of Sober Awkward, they reflect on their own experiences with promiscuity and the emotional aftermath that often follows. From feeling lost and empty to dealing with shame and regret, they leave no stone unturned.
Vic shares how she often felt violated and unworthy when her expectations weren't met, while Hamish opens up about feeling transactional and disconnected during his encounters. They also touch on the physical challenges that come with drunk sex, like Brewer's Droop and Pilly-Willy, making it clear that alcohol doesn't exactly enhance the experience. The duo also delve into the dangers of impaired judgement, including unprotected sex and risky situations.
They emphasise the importance of setting boundaries and being mindful of your choices, especially when alcohol is involved. This episode isn't just about the downsides, though. Vic and Hamish highlight how sober one-night stands can be more fulfilling and less regretful. They suggest meeting for coffee first to build a genuine connection, ensuring you're both in the right state of mind. If you've ever questioned the impact of alcohol on your sexual escapades, this episode is a must-listen.
It's a blend of humour, honesty, and valuable insights that will leave you reflecting on your own experiences. So, are you ready to rethink your approach to one-night stands?