How Narcissistic Monologuing Blocks Genuine Communication
Narcissistic monologuing is again one of the reasons why you cannot connect with these people.
Ever tried to have a meaningful conversation with a narcissist and felt like you were hitting a wall? In this episode of 'Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish', Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, breaks down the concept of narcissistic monologuing. This episode dives into how narcissists dominate conversations, making it nearly impossible for genuine communication to occur.
Instead of a balanced exchange, they steer the dialogue back to themselves, leaving you feeling unheard and overwhelmed. Danish explains that when you attempt to connect with a narcissist, the goal is mutual understanding. However, narcissists are masters at hijacking conversations. They might start with an open-ended question, but it's just a trap. Soon enough, the focus shifts back to their world, their ideas, and their perceptions.
This self-centered behavior leaves you with a heavy mental load, as you're forced to absorb their endless monologues. Communication with a narcissist is like trying to play a game where the rules constantly change. It's either their way or no way at all. Danish emphasizes how this monologuing tactic is not just frustrating but also abusive. It prevents any real connection and understanding from forming between you and the narcissist.
If you've ever felt suffocated by a narcissist's constant talking, this episode is for you. Danish offers insights into why narcissists behave this way and how you can recognize and protect yourself from these manipulative tactics. It's a must-listen for anyone struggling to maintain their sanity while dealing with a narcissist's verbal onslaught.