Mastering Communication with Addicted Loved Ones: Practical Tips for Moms
The most damaging thing in the life of a child is the unlived life of a parent. And if you are the mom of an addicted loved one, you are probably not living the life for yourself you ever thought you'd be living.
Ever wondered how to talk to your child who's struggling with addiction without feeling like you're walking on eggshells? In this heartfelt episode of 'Moms Letting Go Without Giving Up', Michelle Weidenbenner shares her BLESS method, a simple yet powerful approach to communication. Michelle knows the pain and confusion firsthand, and she's here to offer a lifeline to moms in similar situations.
The BLESS method stands for Be calm, Listen, Empower your child, Stay in your lane, and Short – don't lecture. Michelle breaks down each step, showing how staying calm and listening can open doors to better understanding and support. Empowering your child to take responsibility is key, and Michelle emphasizes the importance of staying in your lane to avoid overstepping boundaries. But that's not all. Michelle also introduces the PEACE way of listening: Paraphrase, Emotion, Affirm, Consent, and Empathy.
These techniques help create a supportive environment where your child feels heard and respected. By avoiding nagging and lecturing, you can foster better problem-solving skills in your loved one. Throughout the episode, Michelle underscores the value of joining support groups and leaning on faith during these challenging times. Her compassionate voice and practical advice make this episode a must-listen for any mom navigating the stormy seas of a child's addiction.
Tune in to gain valuable tools that can transform your communication and strengthen your bond with your child.