A Mother's Guide to Detachment: Insights from Dr. Lynn Payne
If you want them to get to the finish line of recovery sooner, the most important thing to do is to let them suffer the consequences, because if we don't change, they don't change.
Parenting an addicted loved one is a journey fraught with heartache and tough decisions. In this episode of 'Moms Letting Go Without Giving Up', host Michelle Weidenbenner sits down with Dr. Lynn Payne, an addiction counselor and mother who has walked this challenging path herself. They dive into the difficult but crucial concept of detachment – letting go without giving up on your child. Dr.
Payne shares her personal and professional experiences, shedding light on the fine line between supporting and enabling an addicted loved one. She emphasizes the importance of allowing loved ones to face the consequences of their actions, stating, 'If we don't change, they don't change'. The conversation also explores the role of the judicial system in addiction recovery and how it can sometimes be a necessary part of the journey.
Michelle and Lynn discuss the ripple effects of addiction on family dynamics and stress the power of community support in navigating these turbulent times. Whether you're a mother seeking guidance or someone looking to understand the complexities of addiction, this episode offers valuable insights and a message of hope.