Brenda Adelman on Forgiving the Unforgivable: A Deep Dive into Healing
I think most people think they hold on to it because it makes them strong and it really doesn't.
What happens when the unimaginable becomes your reality? Brenda Adelman knows all too well. Her father killed her mother and then married her aunt. This isn’t a plot from a crime drama; it’s Brenda's life. In this gripping episode of 'Here's the Deal', hosts Audre Nelson and Devin Kleffer sit down with Brenda to unpack her journey towards authentic forgiveness.
Brenda reveals her three-step process for forgiving the unforgivable, emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries and viewing forgiveness as a gift to oneself. The conversation also touches on the role of wishing the other person well in genuine healing and why both men and women need to engage in discussions about forgiveness and boundaries. Audre and Devin share their own experiences and reflections, making this episode a rich tapestry of personal insights and practical advice.
If you’re navigating your own path to forgiveness or looking for inspiration on personal growth, this episode offers a compelling blend of empathy, wisdom, and actionable steps.