Alcohol Action Ireland
Alcohol Action Ireland
Growing Up with Parental Problem Alcohol Use
Growing Up with Parental Problem Alcohol Use
Growing Up with Parental Problem Alcohol Use
Wednesday 19th October 2022
Marion Rackard and Mick Devine explore the psychological impacts of growing up with parental alcohol misuse in 'Silent Voices'.
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Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Family Recovery from Addiction
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Get the buttons here!Silent Voices: Navigating Childhood in a Home with Alcohol Misuse
This trauma comes to you through the people who are looking after you and who are responsible for your care.
What happens when a child's home, meant to be a sanctuary, becomes a battleground due to parental alcohol misuse? In this episode of 'The Alcohol File', Marion Rackard, a seasoned psychotherapist and addiction counsellor, joins Mick Devine, Clinical Director with the Tabor Group, to shed light on the profound psychological impacts of growing up in such an environment.
Marion, co-founder of Alcohol Action Ireland's initiative Silent Voices, shares insights that are both personal and professional, making this conversation deeply resonant for anyone touched by similar experiences. Mick, drawing from his own family's struggles with alcoholism, adds layers of empathy and understanding to the discussion. They start with a poignant quote from BBC journalist Fergal Keane, highlighting the spectrum of trauma faced by children in these homes.
The conversation then explores the early developmental stages where a child's sense of security is heavily influenced by the mother's well-being. As the child grows, the father's role becomes increasingly significant. One of the key themes discussed is the defensive adaptations children make to cope with their chaotic environments. These adaptations often involve distorting reality and developing an inner critic that can lead to lifelong feelings of worthlessness.
Marion emphasizes the importance of addressing this inner critic early on to prevent these damaging beliefs from taking root. The episode also delves into adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and how normalized trauma can keep children in a constant state of survival mode. This constant alertness and underlying shame can be incredibly isolating. Marion and Mick stress the importance of openness and honesty about the Adult Child of Alcoholics (ACOA) experience.
By confronting these issues head-on, individuals can break free from the confines of their family legacy and find a path to healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has grown up in a similar situation or knows someone who has. It offers not just understanding but also practical advice for therapists working with this often-overlooked group.