Reframing 'Obey': Turning Triggers into Triumphs - The High Cost of Anonymity EP 122
What connected for me was painting this obeying god with obeying purpose, in other words, obeying that, that voice deep down within me that says you can do it or go down this path or say yes to this or meet this person.
Ever had a word that just makes you see red? In this episode of 'The High Cost of Anonymity', Preston Moore dives into the word 'obey' and why it grates on so many of us. For Preston, 'obey' is like a red rag to a bull, hitting all his 'don't tell me what to do' buttons. Sound familiar? If you've ever felt your hackles rise at certain words or phrases, this one's for you.
Preston gets real about how his rebellious streak was triggered by the word 'obey', especially in a religious context. But rather than just rant about it, he shares how he's worked hard to shift his perspective. By adopting the principle of 'take what you want and leave the rest', he's learned to hear messages he doesn't fully agree with without shutting down completely.
This episode isn't just about one man's struggle with a word; it's about how we can all reframe the things that trigger us. It's about turning those knee-jerk reactions into opportunities for growth and understanding. Preston also touches on the broader themes of breaking the stigma around shame, guilt, and embarrassment. He emphasizes the importance of sharing our stories and experiences to build a supportive community.
So, if you're looking for ways to turn your triggers into triumphs and embrace your life experiences as superpowers, tune in. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that words have power, but we have the power to change their impact.