Dad's Role in Recovery: Insights from Andy Goldstrom on Supporting a Child's Substance Misuse
It's hard to say that there aren't road bumps, but you know the best thing that happened to her was she had a job interview after she came home from residential treatment and basically was pretty honest about the adversity that she went through and the road that she was on, and that she was far more attuned and able to cope with some of the stresses in her life, and the hiring manager was very smart and basically said: you're the type of person we want.
When it comes to supporting a child struggling with substance misuse, dads often face unique challenges that can feel isolating. In this episode of 'Hopestream', host Brenda Zane sits down with Andy Goldstrom, a seasoned parent coach and father, to share invaluable insights tailored for dads navigating this tough journey. Andy opens up about his own experience balancing a demanding career and family life while seeking help for his daughter, who was battling addiction.
He shares candidly about the emotional rollercoaster he faced, offering a refreshing perspective that many dads will find relatable and reassuring. Andy and Brenda dive into how traditional gender roles can sometimes complicate the process of helping a child in crisis. They discuss the different approaches men and women might take, and why understanding these differences can be crucial for effective support.
Andy emphasizes the importance of resilience and learning from adversity, and he offers practical advice on communication strategies that work well for dads. He also touches on the benefits of natural consequences over punishment, providing a thoughtful take on how to foster growth and responsibility in children. One of the standout moments in their conversation is Andy's discussion on wilderness therapy and residential treatment—options he and his wife chose for their daughter.
He explains how these experiences helped uncover the root causes of her stress and addiction, offering hope to other parents considering similar paths. Andy's honesty about dealing with grief, regret, and sadness is both moving and inspiring, making this episode a must-listen for any dad feeling unsure or unsupported in their journey.
Whether you're a dad in the thick of it or someone looking to understand what your partner might be going through, this episode offers a wealth of practical tips and heartfelt advice. Tune in to hear Andy Goldstrom's story and gain new tools to support your child's path to recovery.