Love and Sobriety: Navigating Relationships in Early Recovery
But the comprehension and again my patience and my empathy, and those type of principles and those type of emotions that I needed to give to that, to those women when I was dating them, I didn't have, because I was still so self-centered, like what don't you get?
Ever wondered how to manage dating while staying sober? In this episode of 'The Other Side with Richie H.', BlueCrest Recovery Center's Regional VPs, Stas Botsaris and Mark Bonanni, dive into the tricky waters of relationships in early recovery. With their characteristic openness, Stas and Mark share their personal stories, shedding light on the highs and lows of dating when newly sober.
From the awkward first dates to the emotional rollercoasters, they discuss what worked for them and what didn't, offering a candid look at the challenges and rewards of finding love in recovery. Stas emphasizes the need for empathy and patience, admitting that early on, he struggled with self-centeredness that made relationships tough. He reflects, 'Those principles and emotions I needed to give to those women when I was dating them, I didn't have because I was still so self-centered'.
This honest admission underscores the importance of self-awareness and humility in building healthy relationships. The conversation also touches on the stigma surrounding dating in recovery and the critical role of communication. They offer practical advice on seeking support and approaching relationships with an open heart and mind. If you're navigating the complex world of sobriety and relationships, this episode provides a mix of humor, heartfelt stories, and valuable insights.
It's a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of love while staying sober.