First vs Second Order Changes: Transforming Your Approach to Recovery
Second order is internal change, internal change. I remember a day, and I don't know how it is for everybody else, but I do remember a day, a distinct day, a period of time in my life where it felt like every moment that I was living and breathing was thinking about sex.
Ever felt stuck in a cycle, trying to make changes but not seeing lasting results? This episode of 'The 12th Step Podcast' dives into the crucial difference between first and second order changes and how understanding these can revolutionize your journey through recovery. Hosts Gary, Mike, and Daniel break down these concepts with their signature blend of empathy and practical advice. First order changes are those surface-level tweaks we often make—like cutting down on certain behaviors or avoiding specific triggers.
They’re important but can sometimes feel like putting a band-aid on a deeper wound. Second order changes, however, go much deeper. They involve a fundamental shift in your mindset and how you see yourself and your addiction. These changes can lead to more profound, lasting transformation. Gary shares a personal story about his own struggles with first order changes, illustrating how easy it is to fall back into old habits without addressing the underlying issues.
Mike adds that second order changes are about internal shifts, saying, 'Second order is internal change, internal change'. Daniel rounds out the discussion by emphasizing the importance of commitment and the role of technology in both aiding and hindering recovery. This episode is packed with insights that can help you rethink your approach to recovery. Whether you're dealing with addiction yourself or supporting someone who is, understanding these types of changes can make a world of difference.
Tune in for a thoughtful conversation that offers hope, practical tips, and a new perspective on making meaningful changes in your life.